Series 2, Ep1 No Contact or Limited Contact

When a narcopath marries his mistress, he creates a job vacancy.......

TRIGGER WARNING: Descriptions of the cruelty born of zero empathy can be extremely distressing to hear.

We keep communicating after he leaves, because we are still labouring under the illusion that he cares, that he has a place for us in his heart, like a normal person.

 

We loved and trusted him and placed him at the centre of our universe. But he is personality disordered. Dr Jekyll and Mr Hyde.

 

So, it can take a while to accept he just doesn't care. He never loved us. We were just a passing obsession he stayed with because we were a convenient source of supply. His interest in us ended the day he gained our absolute commitment. From then onwards, it was just about what he could 'get'. He only cares about his image, and he loves no one but himself.

Why does this site and every other psychopathic abuse support site recommend NO CONTACT? 

Because he gets a buzz out of inflicting pain on YOU.

Margot MacCallum, Narcissistic Abuse Counsellor Australia

Margot MacCallum is the pen-name of Professional Counsellor, Nicki Paull. Nicki is a lived-experience, qualified counsellor specialising in recovery from abuse with specialist knowledge of the Mindfulness-Based clinical interventions.

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